Free Enneagram Relationships Test

~ How We Relate in Close Relationships ~

You are invited to take the free Enneagram Relationships Test. The test consists of eighteen questions and will take about ten minutes to complete.

The questions are designed to look at the ways you relate in your close relationships. It will provide insights to moving towards more fulfilling and rewarding relationships. Many people have found it extremely useful.

Your results will be calculated and returned to your email address immediately. You don't have to provide any other personal data such as your name. I think you will find the questionnaire both valuable and fun.

The Questions

Please select a score on the following questions:

1
I find it relatively easy to get close to people.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

2
I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on others.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

3
I often worry that partners don’t really love me.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

4
I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

5
I am comfortable having partners depend on me.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

6
I don’t worry about people getting too close to me.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

7
I often feel my partners could be more emotionally available.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

8
I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

9
I often worry that partners won’t want to stay with me.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

10
When I show my feelings for others, I’m afraid they will not feel the same about me.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

11
I often wonder whether partners really care about me.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

12
I am comfortable developing close relationships with others.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

13
I am uncomfortable when anyone gets too emotionally close to me.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

14
I often feel my partners could be more committed.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

15
I want to get close to people, but I worry about being hurt.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

16
I find it difficult to trust others completely.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

17
Partners often want me to be emotionally closer than I feel comfortable being.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

18
I often feel fulfilled in my relationships.

Not at all characteristic of me

Very characteristic of me

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